Where Do Your Resentments Lie?

 “I think its really key to look at where your resentments lie. So if you are resenting your spouse in any area what is that area? And this is the area you need to fix, because if your not having those resentments, if its working pretty well for you then you probably don't need to set as many boundaries. But if you have that resentment in certain areas that's were you need to look at. Okay how am I showing up here? What do I need to do differently? What is a conversation I need to have with my spouse and how we can make this work the best for the both of us?